Frequently, we see funeral services that are well planned and a good representation of an individual’s life. We try to help families create a personalized service for each individual Fairhaven is privileged to serve. The other day I saw a service that could not have been more personalized. It was such a beautiful service, that I wanted to tell you about it.

The funeral was for a young lady; I think anyone who dies before the age of 100 is dying too young. This woman was in her late 50’s and died of cancer. She had the chance, before she died, to record her eulogy. I never had the chance to meet this woman, however, by the time she finished her eulogy, I felt as though I knew her, and I thought I understood how much she loved her children and appreciated her friends. She talked about her life, as childhood pictures transitioned on the screen. As she spoke, there were tears and giggles about the funny things in her life. She talked about her travels and some of the experiences she had enjoyed. She talked about some of the challenges as well.

After her eulogy, we all dried our eyes as her daughter and sister spoke and said a prayer. I will always remember that funeral service and I am certain that her family will also remember that funeral service. In fact, they will be able to watch her eulogy anytime they want. What a great gift to give and what a great way to help her family through the grieving process.

Too many times, I hear people talk about how unimportant their funeral will be. This woman understood the meaning of this service for her children and family, and she gave them the chance to accept her grief as well as theirs. I thank her for being such a thoughtful and loving mother and sister.