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• Wednesday, June 09th, 2010
If you have experienced the death of a loved one, please seek help from one or several of these sources. Many of the people that attend Fairhaven’s grief support group, also attend others. You can also contract Mariposacenter.org for more information about support groups in Orange County.
Mariposa Women and Family Center
812 W. Town and Country Rd.
Orange, CA 92868
Contact: Mike Meador
(Bereavement Director)
(714)547-6494 ext. 329
Email: mmeador@mariposacenter.org
Website: www.mariposacenter.org
Aliso Viejo
VITAS Innovative Hospice Care
Coast Hills Community Church
5 Pursuit
Aliso Viejo, CA 92656
Contact: Sandie Moore
(949)362-0079 (Church)
(949)496-1597 (Home)
Contact: Linda McMahon
(Bereavement Services Manager)
(714)734-2753
- Grief Recovery
An action program for moving beyond loss
Class format, handbook, group discussions
8-week sessions
Anaheim
Parents of Murdered Children, Inc.
Zion Lutheran Church
222 N. East Street
Anaheim, CA 92805
(714)999-7132
Website: www.gocpomc.org
- Adult Survivors of Homicide Victims Group
For family & friends of those who have
died by violence
VITAS Innovative Hospice Care
Knott Avenue Christian Church
315 S. Knott Ave.
Anaheim, CA 92804
(714)527-5195
Contact: Linda McMahon
(Bereavement Services Manager)
(714)734-2753
- Grief Share
Anaheim Hills
VITAS Innovative Hospice Care
San Antonio Catholic Church
5800 E. Santa Ana Canyon Rd.
Anaheim Hills, CA 92807
Contact: Barbara Jou-Jan Roche
(714)281-1721
Website: www.sanantonioparish.org
Contact: Linda McMahon
(Bereavement Services Manager)
(714)734-2753
- Adult Bereavement Group
Brea
Kids Konnected
Brea Community Center
695 Madison Ave., Meeting Room H
Brea, CA 92821
Contact: Justine Palacios
Valene Corcoran (Director of Development)
(949)582-5443
(800)899-2866
Email: info@kidskonnected.org
Website: www.kidskonnected.org
- Children’s Support Group
Costa Mesa
Costa Mesa Senior Center
695 W. 19th St.
Costa Mesa, CA 92627
(949)645-2356
- “Transitions Program”
Group addresses issues of loss of a loved one,
health problems, loneliness, isolation, depression
and decrease in independence.
Senior Support Group
“We don’t grieve, we achieve!”
Kids Konnected
OC Susan G. Komen for the Cure Office
3191-A Airport Loop Drive
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
Contact: Justine Palacios
Valene Corcoran (Director of Development)
(949)582-5443
(800)899-2866
Email: info@kidskonnected.org
Website: www.kidskonnected.org
- Children’s Support Group
VITAS Innovative Hospice Care
Jewish Family Services Office
250 E. Baker, Suite C
Costa Mesa, CA 92626
(714)445-4950
Contact: Linda McMahon
(Bereavement Services Manager)
(714)734-2753
- Bereavement Support Group
Fairhaven
Fairhaven Support Group
Fairhaven Memorial Park & Mortuary
Waverley Gallery
1702 Fairhaven Ave.
Santa Ana, CA 92705
Contact: Carol Sexton or Ruth Velez
(714)633-1442
- Loss of a Loved One
Second Thursday of the month at 2:00
Open to the community
Fullerton
Compassionate Friends
Grace Bible Chapel
1119 S. Lambert Dr.
Fullerton, CA 92833
Contact: Roy Redman
(714)993-6708
Website: www.thecompassionatefriendsoc.com
- Loss of a Child
For parents, grandparents, siblings (over 14 yrs. old)
Open to the community
Please call prior to attending 1st meeting
No fee
First Evangelical Church
2801 N. Brea Blvd., Bldg. B-207
Fullerton, CA 92835
Contact: Bob Lawther
(714)990-2287 (Home)
(714)529-5544 (Church)
- Bereavement Support Group
For men & women of all ages
Group has a religious component
Fullerton Senior Center
(Co-sponsored by:
VITAS Innovative Hospice Care)
340 W. Commonwealth Ave.
Fullerton, CA 92832
Contact to pre-register: Vicki
(714)738-6305
Contact: Linda McMahon
(Bereavement Services Manager)
(714)734-2753
- Bereavement Support Group
Bereavement Support Group
St. Jude Community Services
Conference Room
130 W. Bastanchury
Fullerton, CA 92835
(800)870-7537 – option 2
Contact: Karyl Dupee
(714)446-7035
- “Healing Hearts After Loss”
No fee – $2 donation accepted
Registration required
Garden Grove
Crystal Cathedral
12141 Lewis St.
Garden Grove, CA 92840
*Go in Chapman Ave. gate
Take an immediate right
Contact: Linda Moore
(714)750-9237
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New Hope Hotline:
(714)639-4673
Teen Line:
(714)639-8336
Open to the community
No fee
Odysey Hospice
7077 Orangewood St., Suite 201
Garden Grove, CA 92841
(714)934-4520
(800)797-2686
Contact: Gary Tucker (Bereavement Coordinator)
Email: gtucker@odsyhealth.com
- Death of a Loved One (adults)
Huntington Beach
Heartland Hospice
St. Peters by the Sea Presbyterian Church
16931 Bolsa Chica
Huntington Beach, CA 92649
Contact: Chris Strutt
(714)558-2366
Email: cameron_cs1@yahoo.com
- Adult Bereavement Group
Faith-based group
St. Bonaventure Church
16400 Springdale St.
Huntington Beach, CA 92649
Contact: Sister Annunciata
(714)846-3359
- General Bereavement Support Group
Located in: Teacher’s Lounge
St. Simon & St. Jude Catholic Parish
20444 Magnolia St.
Huntington Beach, CA 92646
Contact: Maureen O’Day
(714)962-3333 ext. 236
- Support Group for Widows & Widowers
8-week session
Located in: Multi-Purpose Room
Pre-registration is required
Call for schedule
Irvine
Compassionate Friends
Rancho Senior Center
3 Sandberg Way
Irvine, CA
(949)552-2800
- Loss of a Child
1st Wednesday 7:00-9:00pm
Jewish Family Services of Orange County
1 Federation Way, Suite 220
Irvine, CA 92603
(949)435-3460
(714)445-4950
- General Bereavement Support Group
Every Monday 2:00-3:30pm
Pre-registration is required
Lakeview Senior Center
20 Lake Road
Irvine, CA 92604
Contact: Judy Denton
(949)724-6924
- “Living with the Loss of a Spouse”
Mariner’s Church
5001 Newport Coast Drive
Irvine, CA 92603
Contact: Carol Collins (for dates & times)
(949)723-7890
Website: www.marinerschurch.org
VITAS Innovative Hospice Care
220 Commerce, Suite 100 (VITAS office)
Irvine, CA 92602
Contact: Linda McMahon (for dates of next series)
(714)734-2753
- “Grief 101”
For those whose loved ones have died within the past 12 weeks
- “Missing Our Mothers”
For adult women who recently experienced the death of their mother
Saturday morning workshop, 8:30-12:00pm
Follow-up session 4 weeks later – Saturday morning 9:00-11:00am
Laguna Beach
Laguna Presbyterian Church
415 Forest Ave.
Laguna Beach, CA 92651
Contact: Jackie Pearson, LMFT
(949)494-7555
- Growing Through Grief
Location: Parlor
South Coast Medical Center
31872 Pacific Coast Highway
Laguna Beach, CA 92651
(949)499-7133
- General Bereavement Support Group
Laguna Hills
Saddleback Memorial Hospital
24551 Health Center Dr.
Laguna Hills, CA 92653
Contact: Joan Way
(949)598-3941
- General Bereavement Support Group
Chandra Chaikin, MS, LMFT
- Living For Today: Grief and Loss Group For Seniors
Tired of feeling alone? Do you feel like life has lost its
spark? Come share your wisdom and experience
with others.
24953 Paseo De Valencia
Suite 24-B
Laguna Hills, CA 92653
(714) 404-2802
E-mail: info@ChandraChaikin.com
Laguna Niguel
Art & Creativity for Healing
26079 Getty Drive
Laguna Niguel, CA 92677
(949)367-1902
Website: www.art4healing.org
- Bereavement 4-week Workshop Series
For those dealing with the loss of a
loved one
• Children Workshop series – 2009
Adult Fee: $135 (includes art materials)
St. Timothy Catholic Church
29102 Crown Valley Parkway
Laguna Niguel, CA 92677
Contact: Sally Hotchkiss (for dates & times)
(949)249-4096
- Grief & Loss
8-week Group
Laguna Woods
Temple Judea
24512 Moulton Parkway
Laguna Woods, CA 92637
Contact: Cally Clein
(949)830-0470
- General Bereavement Group
Lake Forest
Saddleback Church
1 Saddleback Parkway
Lake Forest, CA 92630
Contact: Elaine Quickle
(949)609-8392
(Call for start of next 13-week session)
- Grief Support Workshop
13-week session
Group has a religious component
Santiago de Compostela Catholic Church
21682 Lake Forest Dr.
Lake Forest, CA 92630
Contact: Mary
(949)380-7520
- “Good Grief Group”
Support for men & women who are grieving over
the death of a spouse, child, parent, relative, or friend
Location: Parish Hall
Open-ended
Non-denominational
Los Alamitos
Cancer Support Foundation
Los Alamitos Community Center
10911 Oak St.
Los Alamitos, CA 90720
Contact: Connie Fike
(562)799-3131
Email: cancerfoundation@aol.com
- Bereavement Support Group
8-week series
Los Alamitos Community Center
10911 Oak St.
Los Alamitos, CA 90720
(562)594-9977
- Spouse Bereavement Group
Three 8-week sessions a year
Sponsored by the Cancer Support
Foundation of Los Alamitos
Mission Viejo
Gary’s Place for Kids
Mission Hospital Conference Center
26726 Crown Valley Parkway
Mission Viejo, CA 92694
(949)348-0548
Website: www.gpfkoc.org
Grief support for children ages 3-18 who have experienced
the death of a loved one & for their parents/other significant
adults in their lives.
- Children’s Grief Support Group
For “Littles” (ages 3-8 years) &
“Middles” (ages 9-12 years)
Teen Grief Support Group
Ages 13-18 years
Adult Group
All groups meet during the months of September through June
Open to the community
No fee
Kids Konnected
Mission Hospital Conference Center
26726 Crown Valley Pkwy
Mission Viejo, CA 92694
Contact: Justine Palacios
Valene Corcoran (Director of Development)
(949)582-5443
(800)899-2866
Email: info@kidskonnected.org
Website: www.kidskonnected.org
- Children’s Support Group
2nd Monday 6:30-8:00pm
Mission Hospital Regional Medical Center
27700 Medical Center Rd.
Mission Viejo, CA 92691
(949)364-1400
Contact: Sandy Fant
Email: sandy.fant@stjoe.org
- “Living Life Again”
Adult Bereavement Group
10-week session
3 times per year
Registration is required
Presbyterian Church of the Master
25051 Marguerite Parkway
Mission Viejo, CA 92692
Contact: Karen Carson
(949)768-7652
(Call for dates & times of next group)
- Grief Recovery
Newport Beach
Hoag Hospital
1 Hoag Dr.
Newport Beach, CA 92663
Contact: Maxine
(949)764-8358
- Email: PerinatalLoss@hoaghospital.org
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St. Andrew’s Presbyterian Church
600 St. Andrews Road
Newport Beach, CA 92663
Contact: Betty Adkinson
(949)673-5725
(Call for future dates & times)
- Growing in Christ Through Grief
6-week session
up has a religious component
Optional $15 materials fee
Orange
Guide for Infant Survival (GIS)
For anyone who has lost a child to
Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS)
Contact: Barbara Estep
(949)474-8417
(Call for times & locations – parents take turns
hosting the group meetings)
Website: www.gisoc.org
Kids Konnected
Cordelia Knott Center for Wellness
230 South Main Street, Suite 100
Orange, CA 92868
Contact: Justine Palacios
Valene Corcoran (Director of Development)
(949)582-5443
(800)899-2866
Email: info@kidskonnected.org
Website: www.kidskonnected.org
- Children’s Support Group
Mariposa Women and Family Center
812 W. Town and Country Rd.
Orange, CA 92868
Contact: Mike Meador
(Bereavement Director)
(714)547-6494 ext. 329
Email: mmeador@mariposacenter.org
Website: www.mariposacenter.org
Orange Senior Center
170 S. Olive Street
Orange, CA 92866
(714)538-9633
- Moving On
For older people who have lost a spouse
St. Joseph’s Hospice
1100 West Stewart Drive
Orange, CA 92868
Contact: Janyce Lawson
(714)712-7129
Email: janyce.lawson@stjoe.org
- Adult Bereavement Group
Ages 18 and older
- Adult Bereavement Group
Ages 18 and older
Placentia
Family Support Network
181 W. Orangethorpe Ave. Suite D
Placentia, CA 92870
(714)854-7762
- Parent-to-Parent Mentors
Parents grieving the loss of a child
Usually over the phone – can be in person
Hospice Care of California
377 E. Chapman Ave.
Placentia, CA 92870
Suite 280
Contact: Rose Allen
(bereavement coordinator)
(714)577-9656
(800)889-3227
Email: Ruth Dooley
rdooley@hospicecareofca.org
Website: www.hospicecareofca.org
- Adult Bereavement Group
The Wellness Community
109 West Torrance Blvd.
Placentia, CA
(310)376-3550
Email: info@wellnessandcancer.org
- Family Transition Group
For those who’s loved one has just died
from cancer
San Clemente
San Clemente Presbyterian Church
119 N. Avenida de la Estrella
San Clemente, CA 92672
Contact: Konni Martin
(949)361-1228
- Grief Support Group
Location: Fireside Room
Santa Ana
New Hope Grief Support
Calvary Chapel
1530 W. 17th St.
Santa Ana, CA 92706
Contact: Nikki Conkings
(562)421-9374
Email: info@newhopegrief.org
Website: www.newhopegrief.org
- Adult Grief Group
8-week series
Call for start date of series
Tustin
Cranbrook Senior Living
1262 Bryan Avenue
Tustin, CA 92780
Contact: Sonia Rodriguez, MSW
(714)870-3530
- Grief Support Group
Heartland Hospice
Trinity United Presbyterian Church
13922 Prospect Ave.
Tustin, CA 92705
Contact: Chris Strutt
(714)558-2366
Email: cameron_cs1@yahoo.com
- Adult Bereavement Group
Faith-based group
Tustin Senior Center
200 South “C” Street
Tustin, CA 92780
Contact: Vanessa Osborne
(714)573-3347
- Journey of Grief Support Group
Co-sponsored by St. Joseph Hospital
- Individual Grief Counseling
One-on-one counseling session
Must make an appointment
Yorba Linda
St. Martin De Porres Church
19791 Yorba Linda Blvd.
Yorba Linda, CA 92886
Contact: Mary Sennott
(714)777-2266
(Call for times)
- Grief Support Group
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• Tuesday, May 25th, 2010
Reading another person’s experience or feelings about the death of a loved one can sometimes help us to understand our own feelings. Ellen Bell is one of those rare individuals who is able to express herself, and her feelings, in clear and eloquent terms. When Ellen and her family lost her mother, a lovely vivacious woman, Ellen was able to write about that experience. The Waiting Room is one of her writings, which many of us can appreciate and gain comfort from.
The Waiting Room by Ellen Bell
When it begins, you are ushered into the departure line and you keep moving forward. You know you’re in a place where millions have been before you and countless others will follow. But it is your time now. Your turn in The Waiting Room.
There are new people in the room to help you in this unfamiliar place. Hospice nurses, grief counselors, pastors and funeral directors. Until recently, they were strangers but now you share unthinkable intimacies with them. They are your lifeline because they have been here before. You have not.
You are separated from the world around you. Friends and neighbors are right outside the room. You can see the concern on their faces and hear their loving words of comfort, but there is an invisible barrier. You are in The Waiting Room and they are not.
The Waiting Room is a place of intense focus and effort. There are plans to be made, care to give, final words to say. There is very little time to rest. But every once and awhile, you marvel that the rest of the world is moving along as if nothing terrible is happening, as if no one understands that life will never be the same again.
But you are not alone. Your loved ones are there with you, sharing this time in The Waiting Room. Strangely enough, this place of crisis binds you together in new ways. You hold them up, you feel their kindness.
In fact, the common denominator in The Waiting Room is kindness. It is everywhere and it reveals itself in perfect places. Strangers offer just the right assistance, a friend says just the right word, and miracles abound just when you need them. You find that when you are most exhausted and broken, the exchange of kindness is the only thing that makes you feel human and alive. It’s the only thing you recognize in this strange, altered place.
Finally, when all the preparations have been made and death is at hand, you find that your time in The Waiting Room has been well spent. You have been fortified with the strength to watch death without fear. You witness the transition with eyes wide open, your heart bursting with gratitude for the blessing of a life now ending.
When you leave you are changed forever. You find that your time with death has altered your view of life. There is more gravity, more weight. You carry a wound that will never quite heal.
But you have survived. You know now that you can endure even the most unthinkable pain, and still are grateful for the loss. The Waiting Room teaches you that the death of a loved one is the strongest way to appreciate the gifts of life and to feel the powerful love that binds us together.
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• Friday, January 22nd, 2010
by Marla J. Noel
“I didn’t want to go to a grief support group,” a young lady who lost her husband in a car accident admits to the group.
“You know, I didn’t want to go either,” this time from a dignified woman in her sixties, who had lost her husband several years ago.
The rest of the group is quiet, yet they are all nodding their heads, as if in agreement. All of the group seems glad to be part of the group. They all share, and they all get an affirmation of their feelings.
I am confused by the fear or avoidance of a grief support group, however. I hear these types of comments so frequently. Why would you not ask for help? Most groups are either free or some nominal dollar amount. So what is the reason? I started to think about all of the reasons I have heard from people to avoid this type of help;
I didn’t want other people to see me cry.
I did not want to be reminded of my feelings, because it hurt too much.
I thought I should be able to figure this out on my own.
My family will help me to get through this.
I will get over this eventually
There are probably many other reasons for not going to a grief support group. However, I look at these reasons and my heart goes out to all of the people not getting help for their grief. There is no cure, no magic solution or any words that will make the pain stop. However, there are people out there who will listen to your story, share their story, and help you through a difficult time with their support and caring. So, I will give my arguments to all of those reasons I listed for why you would not go to a grief support group.
1) It is okay for people to see you cry. They will probably be crying also. Sometimes, there is nothing better than to have a good cry with someone else who understands.
2) Suppressing your feelings can be very harmful to your health, and can keep you from going through the grief process, which is a natural process for all of us. Acknowledging your feelings, and expressing them can be helpful.
3) I thought I should be able to figure this out on my own. If we broke our leg, we would go to a doctor. Why shouldn’t we seek help when our heart is broken?
4) My family will help me to get through this. Sometimes your family is trying to get through their own grief, and can’t help you. It is not their fault. Grief is a difficult emotion, and can affect us in many different ways.
5) I will get over this eventually. Sometimes we never do, for many reasons. While I have been at Fairhaven, I have received many unusual calls. I will never forget a call from a young lady who’s mother died seven years before this phone call. She wanted to be sure that there was a marker on her mother’s grave. She had been unable to visit the cemetery for all of those years. I wanted to help her with her grief, however, she did not seem to be reaching out to help herself.
So many people minimize the impact that grief can have on our lives. It is a very powerful emotion. The closer you were to the person you’ve lost, the greater the impact. There are usually so many wonderful people who can help you. Reach out, and grab a hand. Go to a grief support group. There are so many to pick from. If one is wrong for you, try another. You may meet some nice people, as well. Ask for help. You will be glad you did.
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