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by Marla J. Noel

I received this from a friend, who recently had a difficult experience with a friend who had not planned for her death, although she had been ill. Please think about this list, even if you are healthy and young, and spend some time putting together your Green Box. You can update this box every few years. This is written for the business owner in mind. You can adjust to your own circumstances:

The Green Box with 25 envelopes. Here are the labels on the envelopes:

Letter to spouse
Letter to each child
Letter to the employees
Letter to my mother/father
List of most important 5 employeesco-workers
Off balance sheet deals
Organizational Chart and future organizational chart
List of personal and business people that should be contacted in the event of passing
Strategy that I am thinking about but haven’t told anybody about
List of Trusted Advisors and their roles (may or may not be currently working with company) such as attorney, accountant, etc.
Instructions not addressed in Will
Copies of POA documents
Copy of Passport, Birth Certificate
Copy of all credit cards
Copy of physical property titles
Personal stock portfolio information
Details of Life insurance—personal and company owned
Details of all other insurance
Copies of personal property valuations (Jewelry, guns, collectables, etc.)
Computer passwords (Very Important)
Personal financial Statement
Extra passport photos- Picture you would like used for funeral or marker
Medical/Dental Charts
Funeral/Burial Instructions
Mementos and to whom you’d like them given

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Posted by Marla J. Noel

This is another article from NFDA, (the National Funeral Directors Association). I understand that this option may not be for everyone, however, so much good comes from these donations, from saving lives to helping research.

There is no better way to make a difference in someone’s life than to consider giving the gift of life through organ and tissue donation. Organs and tissue from a single donor can help more than 25 individuals. Yet, there are 80,000 people on the national waiting list for life-saving organ transplants.

While it is important to indicate your donor status on your driver’s license, it is extremely important to share your decision with family. Because most deaths occur outside of a hospital, it is best to discuss your donation wishes in advance, though hospitals are required to offer the option of donation to every family. Other organ and tissue donation facts you need to know:

• One in 20 people will need some type of tissue transplant in his or her lifetime.

• Transplantable organs include heart, kidneys, intestines, pancreas and liver.

• Transplantable tissue includes bone, skin, heart valves, connective tissue, veins and eyes.

• In many states, family consent is required at the time of donation.

A family’s organ and tissue donation decision should not interfere with funeral arrangements, including visitations and open casket services. Oftentimes, a grieving family can find comfort in knowing that dozens of people may be helped by a generous organ or tissue donation. Funeral directors respect and support a family’s decision to choose donation. They can help by providing donation information to families, as well as noting donation wishes of those who preplan their funerals.

There are several questions that families should ask the donor organization regarding the donation process.
They include:

• When and where will the donation take place?

• How long will it take?

• Have you informed the funeral director of this information?

Donation is a choice only you can make. Now is a good time to talk with your family about your donation decision, and also to make sure your wishes are indicated on your driver’s license, donor card or living will.

More information on organ and tissue donation is available through The Gift of Hope Organ & Tissue Donor Network at giftofhope.org; the National Donor Family Council at donorfamily.org; or your local National Funeral Directors Association (NFDA) member funeral home.

NFDA funeral homes around the country are participating in a national consumer education campaign, For A Life Worth Celebrating1, in an effort to help consumers make wise and informed decisions related to funeral service. Visit www.nfda.org for more information.